I had a conversation with a customer yesterday that piqued my interest. We got on the subject of low vibrational men, celibacy, and leveling up.

In my opinion, if you are a single woman these 3 things are key to your youth, mental health, and success.

Low vibrational men come with toxic dick, poverty, and misery.
Have you ever noticed they are always horny? Their favorite subject is sex. They send you pics that you didn't ask for. Everything about them is perverted. The shit is such a turn off. They have a lack mentality. When you try to have actual conversations with them they have nothing to offer. I love having witty conversations. That shit is such a turn on. Most of these men have Peter Pan Syndrome. They don't want to grow up, and at some point it will become your fault. I often hear women say that broke dick is the best dick. No, it isn't. Good dick to me doesn't come low vibrational. If it does in your mind that's a terrible mindset. Nothing good comes from dealing with them, and they know this. That's why it is their mission for you to have low self worth. Keep you humble. Tell you not to wear makeup or wigs, extenions, braids, etc...they know what they have. You don't. These men will show jealousy anytime something good happens in your life that doesn't involve them. New home, car, job, promotion, etc...they can't be happy for you because they aren’t. Everything starts to become a competition. You may think to yourself, is he jealous of me? How can a man be jealous of the person their in a relationship with? It happens more then you think. From personal experience, your relationship will become extremely toxic or it won't last. Hopefully, you're the type of woman who sees her worth and leaves.

Celibacy is key to your overall health. Not only does it clear your mind, it protects you from an abnormal PH balance. Ever heard of bacteria vaginosis aka BV. Doctors say that it is not sexually transmitted. But, it is. They give you antibiotics or cream to kill bacteria. You may be fine for a moment. But, it keeps coming back. Your partner maybe sleeping with someone else. When you are celibate these things won't affect you. You will have time to focus on you, your kids, studies, career, etc...men will no longer concern you. You won't be worried about not having a man, and no one can hurt your feelings by saying your single blah, blah, blah...because you've reclaimed your power.

Okay now that we understand the importance of those 2 things, we can level up. Leveling up is not about stunting or shitting on your ex's. It's for you. Because once you're healed and have accomplished some of your life goals, that shit doesn't matter. I told the young woman that I was talking to, imagine if God was a woman. What would that look like? Would women become better to show the world how to heal and pour into themselves. I now look at myself as a God/Goddess. I would say all the time like many of us, oh I'm a Goddess this\that. Truth be told I wasn't because I didn't know the power that I had. That was within my body and spirit. When you truly love yourself you will protect you and all that you have nurtured within you. Leveling up is not a trend. It's a lifestyle, and if everyone could do what it takes, low vibrational men would not exist. You have power to change you and the things around you. It's not about material things and your physical assets. It's your heart, personality, and mindset. Reinvent yourself. Birth a new YOU! 💕