Being a woman…

We often forget how powerful and beautiful we are as women. We put others before ourselves, creating an imbalance within our minds, bodies, and spirits.

How can we as women flourish and become the woman that God has created us to be?!

We scream self-love and putting ourselves first often. But, what truly matters is the action behind it. Our children and husbands deserve so much more than what we are giving them.

How can you truly love your children or spouse, when you are depleted physically and mentally. There is absolutely nothing wrong with taking time out for yourself. Don't feel bad for that. You deserve to.

My hopes is that you read this blog post and feel empowered to live your best life unapologetically.

Over the past few years, I have learned a valuable lesson about men. Their view on life is strictly based on survival first. It's in their nature to hunt and gather.

Why am I telling you this?

You are their prey until they decide to commit. Commitment means marriage, even then they may bore of you and look for new prey. This is the game they love to play at your expense. They take what you pour into them only to use it to find new prey. As women we must take our blinders off. Let's step away from our emotions for a second. We have been lied to when it comes to fairytales. Relationships and marriages aren't just happily ever after. It takes work and honesty to create something meaningful. That implies that both parties are honest and dedicated. We have seen that’s not always the case.

So why would you sacrifice your body, mind, spirit, and womb for someone who isn't deserving. This is why you feel uneasy, stressed, and tired. You have giving him everything. You have given up your power. You have forgotten who the fuck you are. You have given up on your dreams. You have stopped taking care of your appearance. You let a man who is so undeserving get the best of you. You let him nut in you to create a legacy that has you depressed and unfulfilled. Babies are definitely a blessing. But moving forward, I want you to be mindful of who you create a life with. Don't let his sweet talk and empty promises throw you off your life’s mission. It never ends well for you.

I pray that this makes you more mindful of who you give your body to and who you decide to share a life with.

I think you should be celibate for at least one year. It will drive you to focus on yourself and empower you to choose a lover who meets your standards.

Best Wishes Pretty Girl! 💕